Grow a Pair

Jessica Hagy has once again made some simple and interesting points in her Forbes article. Even though it is from eight years ago, it still resonates with me. Over the years, I have referenced this piece and talked about the simplicity of her remarkable assessment. I will conclude my commentary on her ninth way to become more interesting. If you are interested in the others, click the link above.

9. Grow a pair. Bravery is needed to have contrary opinions and to take unexpected paths. If you’re not courageous, you’re going to be hanging around the water cooler, talking about the guy who actually is.

Take a moment and think about the three most interesting people that you personally know. Make a list. What makes them interesting? Do they avoid important discussions? Do they allow others to take the lead on every project? When they express themselves, do they meekly, weakly make suggestions? or are they passionate, courageous, confident, and considerate? On my list, all three know their values, speak their values, and live their values even when it isn’t easy, isn’t popular, and may not even be an advantage to themselves. They are authentic and remarkable. Would you like to be passionate and reasonable, outspoken and considerate, confident, courageous, and reasonable?

What would be the first step that you need to take? Don’t worry about the 2nd, 3rd, 10th, 127th steps; what would be the first step? Write it down. Now take it. Take that step right now. Write a comment. Start a blog. Make a phone call. Send an email. Go for a run. Whatever came to your mind as the first step ` take it and tomorrow, evaluate and ask the same question. “Today, what would be the first step, I need to take to be the remarkable person that I am.”

To be even more politically incorrect, you don’t need the genetically coded makeup to grow a pair that is referenced here.


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